Who Gets the Airplane Armrest

Who gets the airplane armrest?

Is it the person in the middle seat?

There have been in-the-air battles over who gets the airplane armrest.

On a recent flight I boarded last, knowing I had a reserved window seat. The woman in the middle seat had claimed and was firmly holding her position—both elbows planted on the armrests as she read her book.  Realizing that, I knew that I had three options: 1) lean into the window and forget about it; 2) build resentment while engaging in the “armrest battle”; or 3) speak up.  I chose option #3,

What’s your vote? Who do you think should get the armrests?

  • a)  the person in the middle seat should have both.
  • b)  the armrests should be shared.
  • c)  the person who arrives first gets to claim the armrests.
  • d) none of the above.

By the way, even etiquette experts disagree on this matter.

As I buckled-up, I looked her way and in a friendly and confident tone, I said, “Hello”, lowering my glance at the armrest, I continued, “I’ll take the back and you can take the front.”  (Obviously I voted for option “b“) She was momentarily perplexed, but quickly replied, “Oh, that’s fine.” while adjusting her elbow toward the front of the armrest.  Problem solved.  I believe that most people want to be accommodating, but for many reasons just don’t think of it or make the move.

Final thoughts: Consideration of others is essential when flying.  You cannot expect to have the comforts of home; you can’t expect the other passengers to adjust to you (they paid for the ticket too); you aren’t the only one who finds the seats getting tighter and tighter.

There’s also the battle of the foot-space. These confined spaces are not made for tall people, and I feel for you, but do not assume you can plant your foot over into my “foot-space.”  

If you require more space, special attention, and more comforts than offered in coach, consider buying a first class ticket, or grin and bear it like the rest of us.

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