Feeling stuck in a job you think you hate can be frustrating. It might be worth looking at why. It can either revive your interest or open the door to a new opportunity.

Here are 8 reasons you think you hate your job (written with an element of humor and simplicity; life is often more complicated): 

  1. I no longer feel challenged. What are you doing about it? Have you expressed this to your manager?
  2. I do not agree with some of HR’s new policies. Change is inevitable. Expecting to agree with every company policy is absurd, no matter who you work for. Before quitting or complaining, weigh the pros and cons. Will this policy affect your career goals?
  3. Some of my coworkers are dull. Make friends with new ones. Or you can delve deeper into conversations by learning more about them. You might be surprised by what you discover—or they discover about you.
  4. My boss is so standoffish. Only with you? Perhaps they are of the philosophy of maintaining a professional distance from their staff. Are they available in a professional capacity?
  5. I feel like I’m at a standstill. What have you done to learn a new skill or improve your knowledge? Oh, you don’t have time? Make time. Check with HR, they may offer a workplace learning program. Some companies permit employees to use company time to develop new skills.
  6. My boss doesn’t recognize my potential or show interest in my aspirations. If opportunities are limited to showcase your talent or skills, ask. Employees bear some responsibility to ask for feedback, ask for an opportunity, and share their aspirations with their manager. A manager may think that you are satisfied where you are.
  7. I’ve been summoned to return to the office. If you were hired during shelter in-place and now the company wants employees to return to the office, the adjustment will be huge. If your circumstances require additional time to make arrangements, speak to your manager. If working from home is necessary for you, professionally request a grace period (no guarantee they’ll grant it). Your other option is to start job hunting.
  8. The company was relocated. This doesn’t mean you hate your job, it means you hate their new location. So your commute has significantly increased, making it incompatible with your family’s schedule. Your options may be limited. You can professionally present options: Is flex-time available? Is there another position that would allow for flexibility? If not, brush up on your interview skills.

Related: 8 Awkward Things to Do at a Job Interview

FINAL THOUGHTS:

It used to be that a job, was just that, a job. We didn’t have to love it or feel wonderful working there. If it provided our top 3 needs, income, some benefits, and a great boss, it was wonderful! Our life started after we left our job. Now, if you loved what you did and got along well with coworkers, it was a dream.

Naturally, having a sense of accomplishment and opportunities to grow within the company is a bonus. But, in some of today’s industries, job-jumping is common practice for career advancement. If our complaints or issues follow us, maybe it’s not the job.

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