Spending time with your CEO can be eye-opening.

Any amount of time you get with your CEO, is an incredible opportunity.  It’s an opportunity to get noticed through your communication and social skills. Use this time with him/her wisely. And never squander away this opportunity as a gripe session. 

Here is the dilemma:

Q: I’m new to the workplace. About one month into the job, our CEO invited me and my boss out to lunch.  I was pretty nervous, but my boss said our CEO was easy to get along with. Once we stepped into the elevator, I was shocked to hear the profanity and talk about one of our clients.  Just when I thought the awkwardness was over, we head into a restaurant known for the female servers and low cut tops. 

I’m a normal guy, but I expected work-related lunches to have a more professional atmosphere, especially when the CEO is involved.

During lunch I was quiet, possibly giving off an uninterested vibe.  I’m concerned that my lack of participation gave off the wrong message.  Should I have faked it and joined in the conversation?  –Brandon

A:  A awkward situation, indeed. Don’t compromise your principles, for anyone. In this case, you couldn’t excuse yourself, which is what I recommend when a conversation is questionable or unprofessional.  At worst, they could have been testing you. (Not cool, but possible.)  

Here are a few options to consider for future lunches with your CEO, coworker, or client:

  • Accept their invitation on a less regular basis. (A CEO may question it…)
  • Suggest and eat and walk lunch. (Hopefully it’s not a rainy day.)
  • Have a few topics up your sleeve to change the subject.
  • Jokingly point out, “Is that all you guys talk about?”
  • Find a few cases online, “I read that some companies send you to “sensitivity training” if they catch you talking about…”

Business Etiquette, communication, civilityIn my book, “Don’t Burp in the Boardroom – Your guide to handling uncommonly common dilemmas” address a variety of awkward “boss” situations.

Helping Businesses and Individuals Find Success Through Better Communication and Social Skills

having lunch with a CEO, business dining etiquetteRosalinda Oropeza Randall, Social Skills and Civility Presenter, Media Source, and author of “Don’t Burp in the Boardroom.”

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